Stuck

Being your 20s/ mid – 20s is a difficult time to be honest (I know, I know nothing compared to when you are parents and all) but nothing compared to starting something completely new like adulthood.

In these moments of transition, from being dependent to independent but still being in hold of opinions of others, you tend to ponder of what kind of freedom are you getting?

In this phase a lot other things apart from your well-being matter

So are you supposed to go according to the norms? or you are supposed to crave your way or believe in destiny?

My answer to this is,

Doing whatever makes you happy.

So that means if you love following the norms, you do that!
You love finding your own path and be different, you do that!
You believe the universe has your back, it surely does!

Or a beautiful mixture of all three possibilities.

Until you come to a conclusion to what to do and what not to, you are inevitably going to be stuck, so be used to that!

Be used to being a tad bit confused, it is not a happy feeling always but it isn’t going to go away any sooner.

So maybe feel lucky if you have someone to make you smile when you are low or be proud of holding yourself up in times of despair.

And if nothing else works, take deep breaths and just count your blessings. It will help you leaps and bound.

Or else, go out in somewhere a walk or party, you might stumble a solution there.

Until next time,

 

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